Let me start off saying this is not a complaint, just curiosity.
I really enjoy QUEEN'S GAMBIT by Maeryn! However there is one area that tweaks my sensibility. It is VERY minor but I thought to question it and in no way means an insult or complaint. I simply want to know if this is an "across the pond" difference.
Namely using head movement to denote YES or NO.
In my American experience, I learned that to shake one's head means moving it side to side to denote NO. To denote YES, one nods their head.
As I said, a minor issue but when I see a story where the character shakes their head to denote YES causes a slight dissonance of the flow.
If I'm being silly, tell me. Thanks
Comments
Might be
Though, I have also seen ‘Murkin authors here use “shake her head” to signify assent. Occasionally.
— Emma
I see it your way
But the but then I live an hours drive from the Pacific ocean, and have never even been closer to the UK than New York City.
We'll have to have some folks from across the pond tell us.
Hugs
Patricia
Happiness is being all dressed up and HAVING some place to go.
Semper in femineo gerunt
Ich bin ein femininer Mann
Nods And Shakes
In the UK and here and in NZ a nod, i.e. vertical movement is YES, and a shake, a lateral movement is NO.
Some American writers...
...seem to think that a shake is any movement, including a nod. So therefore one can shake one's head either yes or no. I treat this idea as an error when editing. Then there's wagging your head, like Shabeez in The Pregnant Boy. :)
Hugs,
Erin
= Give everyone the benefit of the doubt because certainty is a fragile thing that can be shattered by one overlooked fact.
And then there is LBJ’s rule for politicians
(US President Lyndon B Johnson)
If the head goes up and down, or side to side, they’re telling the truth, but if the lips go up and down, they’re lying.
How can you tell if a politician is lying?
Their lips are moving.
Hugs
Patricia
Happiness is being all dressed up and HAVING some place to go.
Semper in femineo gerunt
Ich bin ein femininer Mann
How can you tell if a politician is lying?
Their name is Donald Trump!
D. Eden
“Hier stehe ich; ich kann nicht anders. Gott helfe mir.”
Dum Vivimus, Vivamus
And
His lips are moving or he's writing an executive order.
Hugs
Patricia
Happiness is being all dressed up and HAVING some place to go.
Semper in femineo gerunt
Ich bin ein femininer Mann
Donald Trump has told so many lies……
That he wouldn’t know the truth if it stood up and slapped him in the face.
But what makes it really bad is that I am pretty sure that he actually believes his own lies!
D. Eden
“Hier stehe ich; ich kann nicht anders. Gott helfe mir.”
Dum Vivimus, Vivamus
believes his own lies
No doubt. All bigots believe that their twisted opinion is right and everyone that doesn't agree with them is delusional. What makes it bad for us is that among his followers are many who really don't have an opinion about transgender and since they aren't personally affected by what he wants to do about us will just let him go at it. They back him for other reasons and don't care about the rest of it.
Hugs
Patricia
Happiness is being all dressed up and HAVING some place to go.
Semper in femineo gerunt
Ich bin ein femininer Mann
Believing One's Own Lies...
I've never been sure how much of it is delusion and how much is simple opportunism. I think I've always put more in the latter category than most people do now. I think that's where his trans policy fits -- that he doesn't have much of a problem with trans people but his most fervent supporters do, so it won't hurt him to make them feel good by fanning the flames.
Hegseth calling in all his generals and admirals this week really has me worried; only reasons I can think of are to take a personal oath to him and/or Trump as individuals as opposed to their ranks, or to set up putting the whole country under martial law and occupying major cities and state capitals.
(Probably not relevant, and unlikely to happen in any case. But an opinion piece here in San Francisco suggested that if Trump orders the military to do something in total violation of international law, under the Nuremberg protocol the proper procedure is to refuse and then discipline the commander-in-chief through military court martial -- which is not part of the justice system; as the saying goes, "military justice is to justice as military music is to music" -- and therefore not reversible by him. Unless you do so, as the just-following-orders Nazi leaders discovered after the war, you're as guilty and as liable as your commander. What happens if he's removed as C-in-C would of course be totally uncharted territory since it would presumably leave him as president but take the military away from him, including the National Guard.)
Eric
"military justice is to justice as military music is to music"
Kind of goes along with the oxymoron "Military Intelligence."
Hugs
Patricia
Happiness is being all dressed up and HAVING some place to go.
Semper in femineo gerunt
Ich bin ein femininer Mann
"Nods head in agreement"
Just so.
Teri Ann
"Reach for the sun."
Gets confusing
In some cultures the nodding of the head doesn’t mean yes nor the shaking of the head mean no!
In Bulgaria and Greece no is displayed non-verbally with a head nod whilst yes is a shake of the head.
I am not sure if it is an Americanism to simplify things using shakes as any head movement like “shake their head Yes”
In the Indian continent you have the additional head shake nod to mean yes and no.
I will not jump into the subject of the “President of the United States” as it is humiliating to the world. Last time you had some one like himself in charge you threw a big tea party i believe