I have been giving much thought to all that I have……..

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To be thankful for this year - and to all that I have lost. To all that WE have lost.

I have much to be thankful for. I am coming up on five years cancer free this spring, and I feel great. I am healthy, very comfortable financially, and I am finally able to relax and enjoy life without feeling driven to climb the next rung on the career ladder. Something that those who have served will understand, one is shooting at me, and just as importantly I am not having to shoot at anyone to protect my team.

The woman I love more than life itself is still with me, and for some unknown reason still seems to love me. My three sons are healthy and doing well, and for the most part everyone is happy. My first grandchild was born October 10 and she is a beautiful, healthy little girl. Our home is paid for, both of our cars are paid for, our boat is paid for, our health insurance is free……. we are debt free and very comfortable financially. My spouse and I are looking at spending the next decade (hopefully much more!) enjoying life and our family, traveling (She wants to see the parts of the world I have seen and she has never had the chance to visit - well, some of them anyway. Some of them no one wants to visit.), and doing the things we have always talked about but were too busy to do.

But I can’t help thinking about the things I have lost, the things we have lost. I have lost too many friends and comrades; the ones I lost in the service will always haunt me. I am remembering the friends I have lost, including the ones that we have lost here on this site. The people who I thought were my friends, and the ones who claimed to be my family, but disappeared when I transitioned. Even though they proved they never really cared about me, I still miss them.

But what bothers me most are the things that we all have lost. The rights we have lost, that are being eroded day after day by those in elected office. The innocence which our whole society has lost, as ignorance and prejudice runs rampant through our country and through our government. The opportunities which our country is losing with every person who is illegally pulled off our streets and incarcerated, every person who is torn from their homes and shipped to God knows where. I have lost the feeling of pride I used to have when I showed my passport, as what it means to be an American has changed in the eyes of much of the world.

Yes, I have much to be thankful for - but I can’t help hoping that I will have even more to be thankful for after next year’s election cycle!

As we all celebrate the holiday today, hopefully with family and friends, I ask that everyone stay strong. We must stand up for what we believe in, we must support each other, and we must be there for those who are oppressed or in need. And we must vote to protect our rights, our society, next year - and every year!

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